when we evolve as travelers

As you grow older, the style of traveling and the places you want to visit will eventually change concurrently. You will soon start to hate the things that you used to love and love the thing that you despised in the past. Like when you used to hate dirty cities, but now you kind of starting to like getting all “dirty”—Say mud spa <wink>.

We started as backpackers, half a decade ago we have chosen to be identified as the street smart and going-down-and-dirty travelers. Haggling our way to score cheap knick-nacks, running after buses and trains, combing the backstreets to find the 10-dollar hostel dorm, sleeping in airports to save moolas and eating in filthy nooks where we can find fast, cheap and delicious food. Well guess what—IT GETS OLD!

Because things are changing. We are shifting gears and slowing down on a trip, we are expanding geographical reach, we are spending more money, and ultimately, we are learning more to quietly understand and talk less bullshits. That’s the moment when we evolve as travelers.

When we evolve as travelers, we ditch the jam-packed itineraries to simply see and experience things or places as they unfold in front of our eyes while walking on a sunday afternoon or watching time pass on a park.

Who cares about the “must sees?” If we follow someone else’s path then we defeat the real purpose of exploring. We need to see new things, leave new trails and help those who simply want to see things and consider travel as an escape rather than a romantic journey. Again that’s perfectly fine.


Thailand and Cambodia border

When we evolve as travelers we will notice that trips are getting more and more expensive, because the remaining items in our bucket lists are getting more and more geographically remote. As we acclimatize with the curse-inducing plane ticket and hotel prices, we get to appreciate luxury options and splurging getaways.

There is nothing wrong with that, sometimes the comfort of booking a pre-arranged escape with online sites like Club Med and the likes, can give us a worry-free vacation where we can slothfully lie on a recliner, scratch our butts like there’s no tomorrow and temporarily forget the real life Game of Thrones back at work.

When we evolve as travelers we accept the fact that we are not getting any younger: Climbing a steep hill is becoming a horrifying ordeal, pausing every 10 minutes while we stroll across the side streets are increasing in frequency and sitting in a cafe is becoming more of a glorious trip highlight than those temple assaults.

That’s when we realize that we prefer comfort than image. Surely, we would look cool and kick-ass in a 70L backpack and skinny jeans, but dude, tell me that a 20kg backpack and a tight pair of trousers are more comfortable than a rolling trolley and loose cargo shorts… then please allow me to stick my nuts in your brain!

When we evolve as travelers we get to accept that there is no significant difference between a traveler and a tourist because of one plain reason—both are really just the same. So stop arguing, GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!

Again this is just me, travel is a personal quest and should not be patterned on someone else’s map, but traveling easy by tracing a path is equally valid and acceptable. It is a dynamic experience, we adapt to the journeys’ demands, move with the wind and thrust against the waves. Because ultimately, when we accept to learn that the true essence of travel is respecting individuality, then that’s when we evolve as travelers.


Switzerland and Italy border

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  • Nina Fuentes

    July 9, 2013 at 11:49 am

    So kamusta ang maleta? 😉

  • flipntravels

    July 11, 2013 at 10:01 pm

    Ay teh… Ayaw na bumalik sa backpack hahaha

  • Ron Forrest Ron

    July 14, 2013 at 4:34 am

    I was wondering what took you guys so long to use the wheeled luggage! Protecting your backs from the symptoms of aging? More stuff to carry around? Actually having pavement on the places you visit? 🙂

  • Lakbay Diva

    July 18, 2013 at 1:44 pm

    that’s cool… i’m kind of evolving too… into a… mermaid! 😛

  • Eileen of The Super Tourists

    July 22, 2013 at 2:57 am

    Ooh, looks live im devolving instead of evolving. Our family travels have always been the pampered type – packaged and guided tours. now, we are taking the time to travel within the region (southeast asia, east asia) – we are slowly getting into the rougher type of travels and less hectic.

    i am still trying to convince my mom that doing DIY is helluvalot more practical. the thought of boarding an express train to the middle of seoul WHILE PUSHING ALONG HER LUGGAGE is blasphemy to her and parang bumaba daw rango nya. sarap batukan lang.

    ngayon, we’re getting out of the 3-star hotels and into the apartment rentals naman. from tour buses, we’re getting into the trains airport limos.

  • Jenn Sy

    July 22, 2013 at 7:35 am

    Haha! “Tama na ang pagpapanggap”, as my friends and I would kid ourselves nowadays. 🙂 I still like and use the Northface duffel/backpack. If and when the going gets tough, you can still sling it over your back. But I travel mostly with a luggage with rollers too. And I likewise agree with you on jam-packed itineraries. It is so much more enjoyable to sometimes just sit around and enjoy the day.

    Digging your blog.

  • Sony Xperia V GPS

    July 23, 2013 at 2:13 am

    The style of traveling years ago is like carrying the whole closet with you. However, travelers change and become wiser. They now know how to pack and travel light. http://www.backcountrynavigator.com/

  • darwin

    August 3, 2013 at 9:34 am

    so I’m evolving too fast!? i’m getting tired of jam-packed itineraries na rin, minsan nga nauubos na oras ko sa paghilata na lang sa room. haha!

  • flipntravels

    August 4, 2013 at 7:07 am


  • darwin

    August 4, 2013 at 7:21 am

    Napag-usapan nga namin ni Chyng to eh. kaya relate na relate ako after kong mabasa to. LOL

  • flipntravels

    August 4, 2013 at 7:56 am

    Thanks Jenny!
    Yeah, luggage is the new black! hahaha
    panalo yung “Tama na ang pagpapanggap”

  • flipntravels

    August 4, 2013 at 7:57 am

    well travel is multi-directioinal hahaha. never naman kasi kami nagka try ng super pampered trips before. bumabawi lang

  • flipntravels

    August 4, 2013 at 7:58 am

    loveeeeet diva! dream din namin yan!
    sugurin ka namin Dwin soon sa Cebu! ha?

  • flipntravels

    August 4, 2013 at 7:59 am

    hahaha we used to go around towns with just soil on the ground so it was difficult to carry the luggage on our backs hahahhaa

  • Lakbay Diva

    August 4, 2013 at 12:35 pm

    o ba! dive tayo with doi and dylan 🙂

  • Stella Sandoval

    August 20, 2013 at 11:30 am

    If relationships have that seven year itch, perhaps travel junkies feel the need for change after a full decade? I suppose age also has something to do with the “evolution” thing. Friends with more wisdom stored in their pockets have told me that calling the young “daring and the adventurous” is an understatement. Apparently, we try everything and are afraid of nothing. I daresay I still belong to the going-down-and-dirty category. But I’d love to swap my stained and worn-out backpack for a chic piece of luggage too. Someday 🙂

  • flipntravels

    August 23, 2013 at 4:30 pm

    amen! someday, but let’s all take it slow 🙂

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  • Christine Ogine May

    June 7, 2014 at 2:45 pm

    relate na relate even though beginner pko ubos ang time ko s iTineraries.

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